Have you ever thought about the question that WHY do we feel INCOMPLETE?



Is it because of our external circumstances or in our psychology? If you look closely, the reasons for this are visible on both levels. In many cases our circumstances make us feel incomplete. 



For example, every person would be more beautiful/intelligent than someone or the other and less beautiful/intelligent than someone or the other. If he feels confident in front of a person less beautiful/intelligent than himself, then he starts feeling incomplete in front of a person beautiful/intelligent than himself. 



But the problem of incompleteness does not depend only on external circumstances. There is also a psychological aspect to it, the most serious explanation of which has been given by the existentialist thinker Jean-Paul Sartre. 



Sartre said that the nature of human consciousness is such that it is surrounded by the feeling of 'nothingness'. To put it in his language, there is a 'consciousness of absence' in our consciousness. This absence is not of 'this' or 'that' thing, but of 'that condition' in which there is no deficiency, that is, the person has attained all kinds of perfection. Since this situation is impossible, therefore the consciousness of lack persists and keeps us restless. 



** Virtually every person succeeds in some aspects of his life and fails in some, But our mindset is such that we do not pay attention to the importance of the aspects in which we are successful. Due to this nature of ours, we are not able to get out of the web of incompleteness in spite of any effort/action !!!




Location: Alwar, Rajasthan, India

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