Food For Thoughts

We all want that we get success in every struggle of life. Whatever dreams we dream, may come true in a jiffy. May we have the power to bend the world at our feet, immense wealth and high social status. The truth is that our hunger is more than that. We want that we should not be defeated in any battle of life and everyone who challenges us should be defeated by us.   If you look carefully, this hunger to win has  both advantages and disadvantages, although people's attention often goes to its advantages. This is the reason why our parents and teachers want to fill this hunger in us since childhood because they feel that due to this 'killer instinct' a person can reach the peak level of success. That's why they tell 'false and true' stories of  Alexander The Great , Napoleon and Prithviraj Chauhan to the children. They instill in the children the rites of reaching and staying at the top position since childhood.   But in parallel to glorifying this hunge...

You must have seen that some people do any work with full confidence. If you give them any challenge, they will happily accept it. They do not panic even in the most difficult situations. Such people are proud of the whole time.  Some people even say that the history of the world is nothing but the story of a handful of people who believed in themselves.  On the other hand, you may also have come across people who always seem to be suffering from a lack of self-confidence. They want that they should always follow the well-designed paths and there should be no place of any kind of risk in their life. The names of such people are not recorded in history. No one wants his personality to be such a devoid of self-confident. In fact, self-confidence is related to the concept of 'self'. The concept of 'self'  is an important topic of ' Psychology' , which simply means what is the opinion of a person about himself? It is a simple rule that if a person's opinion abou...

Often you will come across two types of people – those who make you depressed because of their clumsiness or irritability and  those who win your heart with their liveliness and generosity . Needless to say that we all want to see ourselves included in the second category.  The hallmark of irritable people is that they are always complaining about something or the other. If someone cooks and feeds them with love, then they start counting the shortcomings in that food too. In fact, he complains about everything except himself. No two words of praise come out of his mouth even on the greatest merit. There is a practice of calling such people ' wretched'  in common language and usually everyone wants to keep distance from them.  On the other hand, the specialty of lively and cheerful people is that they find reasons to be happy even in the worst of circumstances. Even if someone feeds them half-cooked food, there would no wrinkle on their forehead. On the contrary, fill...